People Are Sharing The "Harsh Realities" No One Accepts, And It's A Tough Pill To Swallow
It's never too late for a wake-up call.
It's not too often that we acknowledge the rough parts of life simply because it's hard to think about the negatives. Despite that, it's probably better to be aware of those downsides, no matter how harsh they can be.
So here are 13 harsh realities redditors believe everyone should know.
1.“美丽和金钱很重要。这个世界对富有美丽的人更美好。”
2."Sometimes, YOU are the problem in a relationship."
"And if people keep on leaving you, it may well be your fault. Even if you don’t feel like it is."
3.“努力工作并不总是有回报的。”
4."You don’t always keep the good friends you meet. But that doesn’t mean you can’t make more later on down the road."
5."Beauty matters in how people treat people."
6.“坏事会无缘无故地发生在你身上。”
—蓝精灵
7."You're the bad guy in someone's story."
"So many of your enemies will never admit to doing anything wrong, but the thing is, neither will you in some situations. People justify their own behavior to themselves. That’s why so many people can’t apologize and double down on the shitty things they do."
8."Some people just can’t be saved. You could give them every benefit in the world, and they still could choose to throw it all away and you can’t do anything about it."
9."People can just simply fall out of love with you for no reason."
"Fretting about whether it's you or something else or the investment is basically you giving them the reasons to strengthen why they stopped loving you. When they could very much not have a reason at all. Feelings and priorities can change."
—u/Anonymous
10“更多的人需要理解欲望和爱的区别。很多年轻人认为他们爱他们的S.O.，但这真的只是欲望。”
"It takes complex emotions sometimes to figure out who you truly love. It's like how people become best friends after surviving something very difficult together."
12."People have to want to change. Nothing you can do can make people change if they are resistant to it."
13."Sometimes you're more likely to succeed if born rich than if you're born talented."
—u/Anonymous