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    People Are Sharing The "Harsh Realities" No One Accepts, And It's A Tough Pill To Swallow

    It's never too late for a wake-up call.

    It's not too often that we acknowledge the rough parts of life simply because it's hard to think about the negatives. Despite that, it's probably better to be aware of those downsides, no matter how harsh they can be.

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    That's why — when Reddit user左/右asked"What's the harsh reality no one accepts?" — people actually had lots to say and didn't hold back at all.

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    So here are 13 harsh realities redditors believe everyone should know.


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    2."Sometimes, YOU are the problem in a relationship."

    "And if people keep on leaving you, it may well be your fault. Even if you don’t feel like it is."



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    4."You don’t always keep the good friends you meet. But that doesn’t mean you can’t make more later on down the road."

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    5."Beauty matters in how people treat people."

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    7."You're the bad guy in someone's story."

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    "So many of your enemies will never admit to doing anything wrong, but the thing is, neither will you in some situations. People justify their own behavior to themselves. That’s why so many people can’t apologize and double down on the shitty things they do."


    8."Some people just can’t be saved. You could give them every benefit in the world, and they still could choose to throw it all away and you can’t do anything about it."


    9."People can just simply fall out of love with you for no reason."

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    "Fretting about whether it's you or something else or the investment is basically you giving them the reasons to strengthen why they stopped loving you. When they could very much not have a reason at all. Feelings and priorities can change."



    "It takes complex emotions sometimes to figure out who you truly love. It's like how people become best friends after surviving something very difficult together."


    11."Not everyone is going to like you, no matter how hard you try."

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    12."People have to want to change. Nothing you can do can make people change if they are resistant to it."


    13."Sometimes you're more likely to succeed if born rich than if you're born talented."

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    14.And finally, "Most successful people are lucky more than they are skillful. It’s all about the right time, right place, and the right person."


    Do you have any harsh realities that you think are super hard to accept that should've been added to this list? Feel free to let us know in the comments below!

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