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    16次以最糟糕的方式幽灵

    “我到了我们的公寓,他的所有东西都走了。他刚刚消失了。”

    久前,我们分享了BOB体育一个关于人们如何分享的帖子他们曾经痛苦的最残酷的方式- 是的,故事变得非常糟糕。

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    And if you haven't heard of重影, it's basically when someone ends a relationship with someone else by abruptly cutting off all contact without any clear explanation or warning.

    In the comments of that post, many people from thebobsport1.comBuzzfeed社区分享他们自己的故事,他们是他们被幽灵的最糟糕的方式。以下是一些最疯狂的:

    1。这个facebook消息:

    “当我告诉他时,我怀孕了,我怀孕了。然后他有甲仿在Facebook上发现我以后几十年来说,“我不知道你是否记得我?'严重地?”

    -cr1stalfairie

    2。这个失控的日期:

    "My one and only matchmaking website date. Met this guy at a restaurant, we were getting along pretty well, then afterwards, he said he had to get something from this shop nearby. He’s browsing, so I decide to use the bathroom.On my way out, I look through a window, and there he is getting on a bus!没有文本,没有消息,没有呼叫,没有。奇怪的。我之后删除了我的帐户。“

    -StormWatcher.

    Credit cards stacked on a few dollar bills
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    3.This ex's debt:

    “我在我的信用卡上借给他1,300美元后,我的前痛苦。我最终起诉了他并赢了。然后他在俱乐部的朋友的朋友上击中,给了她的卡片。他告诉她,他只是以为我们和朋友一样努力。他确实给了我,问我是怎么做的。我提出了他的薪水来装饰,因为我从他的名片中雇主。笨蛋。”

    -rachelsporyh.

    4.这些片状父母:

    “当我是一个青少年时,我为一个家庭照顾了,我在为他们工作四年后举办了50美分的时间。他们说他们会考虑一下,我应该来我的下一班,他们应该来让我知道。我出现了,他们没有回家。他们从未回复过我的电话。问题是我为他们的下门邻居保姆,所以我仍然会看到他们很多,但他们只是避免他们的眼睛,不允许孩子们跟我说话。它令人心碎,不必要。懦夫。“

    -sbc67

    5.这次国际举措:

    “五年前,我是从事两年来BOB体育讲act in Italy. During my second week, I met this guy and we instantly connected. We ended up moving together and everything was great. Fast-forward six months before the end of my contract (we had been dating for almost two years, I met his family, and he met mine), and I told him I had to go back home. We talked things through and decided I was gonna try to stay. So, I looked for a job and got one after five months. Because I'm not from Europe, I had to get everything sorted in my home country before permanently moving. I went back, and we set a date for three months from then for me to move with him and officially get married.I quit my job, got my visa sorted, and left family and friends.这一次,我们每天都说。我登陆罗马的那一天,他没有回复我的任何文字。我到了我们的公寓,我的孩子没有,他所有的东西都走了。他刚刚消失了。“

    -van2033

    6.这一罪犯的同事:

    "I got ghosted by a 'friend' once. I worked with this girl for about a year, and we were really tight, and we hung out all the time. ... Later, some stuff went down at work, and I lost my job in a really unfair way. There was a lot of gossip going around the office about some planned changes, but I was not the ringleader of that gossip. I had had several conversations with this 'friend'/coworker, regarding what had been going on. We were going to meet up, eat, and talk about it. She told me she had to pump gas and then she’d be there.她从未出现过,我的号码和Facebook被封锁,我再也没有看到或听过她。

    我很确定的是,她致以围绕我的老板掩盖自己,而不是抵达它,而不是从我的生活中夺走了懦夫的出路和幽灵。我们的同事都知道她发生了什么或她去的地方。

    所以,一个大的效果让我失去了许多人所爱的工作,帮助我提供了所需的侧收入。至少你教会了我谁信任一份工作。“

    -dowew3486.

    有人在手机上检查他们的短信
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    7.这个超不合适的文字:

    "I had a guy ghost me. It sucked, but I moved on 'cause we were casually dating and mostly just hooking up. Fast-forward a month or so, he’s not even remotely on my mind...I’m with my family as we sit with my great uncle in his hospital room as he is dying. This guy, lo and behold, randomly texts me and asks what I was doing.我告诉他我在哪里,这不是一个谈话的时间。我没有收到他的消息几个小时,然后突然,我从这个家伙那里得到一个d * ck pic!我打电话给他,在我的叔叔奄奄一息时被扯下来到他身边。他的推理:这张照片应该为我振作起来。“

    -杰西里尼斯

    8.This best friend who went completely MIA:

    “我被我最好的朋友幽灵。她一直在使用工作作为她缺席的借口,但是与其他朋友一起出去的日常照片。然后,她停止跟我说话了几个月,甚至阻止了我的社交媒体when she’d post pictures with friends.

    当我的奶奶被诊断出患有终端胰腺癌时,她会稍微出现一点点。在我的奶奶过去几天后,她给我发了一条消息,为我的奶奶的传递道歉,她一直是米娅。她告诉我,她会把我的家人带到一晚晚餐,不要打扰食物准备好了。She didn’t show up that night and ignored any and all texts I sent her when we were left with no dinner that night.我对她很失望。我为她做了一切,她离开了第二个我需要她。“

    -imbatmom2.

    9.这个意外的重新遇到:

    "Back in 2004, I had been living with a guy for a few months. I didn’t have a car, so he was my ride to and from work. I called him on my lunch break and everything seemed fine. He even told me that he loved me. Then, after my shift, I sat outside for an hour waiting for him to pick me up. I was absolutely terrified that he had gotten into a car accident since he wasn’t picking up his phone. I finally got another ride home from a coworker only to find that all of his stuff had been moved out of my apartment.

    Several years later, my husband and I were out having pizza with our kids. This family came into the restaurant as we were eating, but I didn’t really pay them any attention.我起身使用洗手间,然后回来看看我的丈夫聊天,我们的女儿和宝宝一起玩。我走过去提醒我的女儿要小心宝宝,只是意识到我丈夫笑着和谈话......那些几年前借给我的人!“BOB体育

    -ericaquint84

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    10。This airport goodbye:

    “在我在大学时,我们在10年内与某人一起过了10年。我在大学时居住了几年。他是我大学城的当地人,我遇到了一些心理健康问题,不得不离开学校,回到家里300距离几英里。我们加入军队后待在一起,并在海外部署了两年,但他的家庭已经搬迁到美国中部的国家,我住在西海岸,所以当他出门时,他去了哪里他的家庭生活。当他从军队出院时,他飞进了我生活的小镇,我们为他的朋友们举办了350英里的婚礼周末。我们一起度过了一起度过了,这很棒。我们驾驶回到我的城市,说我们的再见,他说他爱我,想嫁给我 - 这是我们多年来谈过的事情 - 而且他会在他降落时给我发短信给我。长话短说,我从未听过他。我已经在机场放下了八年了,我们都嫁给了其他人,但是一个**洞。“

    -imonfore77.

    11.This big secret:

    “这是15年前的”重影“甚至是一个人使BOB体育用的词。我的男朋友和我一直在约会六个月。我们每天都有长期,在MySpace上进行了深入的消息,遇到了我们的朋友,并进行了三次日期周。生日前两天,当我父亲在医院生病时,他刚刚停止跟我说话。没有显示到我们的日期,忽略了所有呼叫,Facebook消息和MySpace消息。经过一个月的这种沉默治疗,我已经足够了,改变了我的关系状态“单身”。然后他对我生气了[之后]忽视了我父亲在ICU的一个月!两年后,他通过电子邮件发送给我解释他在另一个国家的秘密女友没有人知道。他已经看过她三年了,据他说,“这太长了,没有性行为”,但他向我保证了我的长留言,这意味着我们的关系比这更重要 - 尽管他几乎不能记住它。我删除了电子邮件,从未回复过。“

    -heatherl4e538395c

    12.这个从未如此逃脱的幽灵:

    "Back when I was living in New Zealand, I met a guy at work and we hit it off immediately. It was intense — I thought he was 'the one' for sure! He travelled back to Liverpool to visit family and was calling, texting, sending flowers, and bought me a new LG Chocolate phone. (Yes, this was a while ago!)

    当他回到新西兰时,事情变得有点奇怪。事实证明,他的前妻通过使用被盗的信用卡并入住酒店在英国的法律下陷入困境。......他意识到他没有完全不在她身边,而不是与我有成熟的对话,他只是从地球的脸上消失了,忽略我的电话,Facebook消息等 - 但他在办公室的路上工作。这意味着我一直看到这家人完全粉碎了我 - 在红绿灯处,在酒吧 - 如此血腥的尴尬!“

    -robynj2.

    有人脱掉订婚戒指
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    13。这个破碎的订婚:

    "My engagement ended because the guy ghosted me. He joined the Peace Corps in August, we got engaged the next May, and then I flew across the world to visit him before Christmas one year — and I paid for basically everything because he was making next to no money. The day after New Year’s, he TEXTED me to tell me we couldn’t get married because it 'didn’t feel right.'他字面上拒绝给我发短信或打电话给我。The only contact I got from him was an email a week later telling me he hated my favorite book. His loss!"

    -eryba.

    14。这个完整的情节扭曲:

    “我最糟糕的重影经历:我与一个我在现实生活中所知道的一个人匹配。我们几个月谈了几个月,他一直在重新安排我们的第一个约会。最后是他没有重新安排的日期,但前一天他停下来跟我说话。根本没有回应。日期的时间和地点被设定,但由于我没有收到他的消息,我没有去。他在第二天留言,关于丢弃他的手机能够回应,但我很可疑,因为他没有提到我没有转向预先安排的日期。我相信他也没有,所以他的手机打破了他的借口是bs。我玩愚蠢并假装它很好,但我问为什么他没有出现。他给了一些蹩脚的借口,问我等多久等待着他。我说我甚至没有回应,我甚至没有回应,我'不愚蠢。突然间,他再次停止回应我。事实证明,他是一个绝对讨厌我的女孩的朋友,他们共同努力让我羞辱。“

    -mimirolo

    15.这晚餐从未发生过:

    "A friend of mine had the weirdest ghosting experience. She was dating this guy she met online for two to three months. All going OK, nothing too serious, but they were spending most nights and weekends together. One day, she gets back from work, and he texts her if she's home and asks what she wants for dinner. She says, 'I feel like a pizza tonight.' He says, 'OK, I'll pick one up and I'll see you at yours.' Hours go by, and he never comes over.此时,她确信他发生了意外,并试图疯狂地打电话和发短信。Few days go by, and she can't find out what happened to him, then she randomly runs into him in a Kroger parking lot. Guy just turns around without a word and walks away. Either the world's biggest coward or got kidnapped by aliens."

    -Zordailin

    16.而这令人满意的结局:

    "I once went on a few nice dates with someone and eventually decided to sleep with him because it felt right. Then I didn’t hear from him for a few days after, so then I texted him and asked what he was doing that weekend, and he responded that he didn’t think it would work out. So I called him out on his conveniently only realizing this *after* we slept together. He said we were too different, and when I asked him what he meant by that, he just never responded.

    快进几年。我是一个音乐家,我的新手道就像,'嘿,所以我的朋友乔什说你们曾经约会?'我说,'什么,乔什?“我真的忘记了他。然后我的朋友向我展示了他的照片,它终于点击了。It felt SO satisfying to think my friend would later relay our conversation to Josh. Also, it turns out he’d been to one of our shows before, and I hadn’t even recognized him. Serves him right."

    -bonbonfire

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